“The person you hate is actually an aspect of yourself that you hate.”
I was with one of my spiritual mentors. The words that altered my entire world were spoken by her teacher.
At the time I was dealing with a lot of strong emotions. I felt that someone I loved was being treated horribly. I felt very angry. The situation seemed hopeless. I was very much consumed with a problem that did not directly affect me.
Those wise words got my attention. From that moment forth, I realized that if I did not start treating myself better—-how could I expect anyone to treat me or anyone I loved better?
All of us are connected.
The person you carry feelings of contempt or hatred toward represent a part of you in some form or another. And likewise, a person you love and admire represents traits that are either dormant or ignited within yourself.
Instead of judging your opinions or thoughts of another person, I invite you to love yourself and embrace the healing opportunity that this other person has brought forth for you.
The one-ness concept is a driving force in my newest project called “The Universal Love Story,” a video series that documents the lives of six people who courageously open their hearts to love and to the joyful creation of relationships and outcomes that reflect their heart’s desire.
If you are able to re-write your own personal love story and change the course of your life, then you play a role in the collective healing of “The Universal Love Story.”
That’s how powerful you are!
Take a moment to watch the teaser for “The Universal Love Story” and if you feel so moved, subscribe and share it with your friends!
See you soon!
Whether it happens within a friendship or an intimate relationship, breaking up is hard to do. The process of letting go of what once was can bring up a variety of emotions.
In the following video, I offer you the following:
– Loving insight to help you heal faster
– A perspective that can help you move forward with less anger and resentment
What the video below:
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Do you feel alone? Like no one understands the heartache you endure? Do you feel broken, stuck, and wonder what’s next for you?
When we have a broken heart, we can feel lost.
That’s very much how Lauren Wenzell first felt when she first reached out to me.
Lauren had no idea how she was going to break free of the betrayal she felt in her heart. She did not know how she would heal from her painful breakup with the man she felt was the love of her life.
And yet—-Lauren prevailed. She healed her heart, reclaimed her power, and created her best relationship.
Watch Lauren’s story of soul-level healing, self-love, and attracting her dream relationship here:
What does this video inspire in you? Do you see yourself in Lauren? Reach out and let me know. I would LOVE to connect with you
When was the last time you broke up with someone? What about the last time someone broke up with you?
Whether it’s divorce, an intimate partnership, or even a friendship—-I want you to know that it OK to be heartbroken. It is OK to move on too. And yes, it is definitely possible to do both at once at the same time too!
As a Love Psychic and Healer, I see people struggle with resentment, grudges, and even guilt.
The pain of a breakup and the desire for fairness and justice is completely understandable. It is healthy to acknowledge your heart’s pain and any emotions you are experiencing through your process.
It is freeing—-LIBERATING to release what separates you from love. Letting go is one of the most loving things that you can do for YOU.
During the Women’s Economic Forum in New Delhi, I had the honor of speaking with a panel of women on the topic of “Driving the Future with Love, Caring, andForgiveness.”
Please watch the video below for loving wisdom burst on this subject.
I will be in touch very soon with footage from my “Letting Love Lead the Way” mini workshop.
Have you ever been told that you “too much?”
Have you lost yourself in a romantic relationship?
Do you yearn to love yourself more and be seen?
Are you ready to break free of negative love life karma, heal your heart, and have your best relationship—-on your terms.
If you answered yes to any of the questions above, then I urge you to watch the video below. In the video, I pour my own heart into my own desire—-a vision that requires the loving contribution of other heart-centered exhibitionists in a fun, new, and LOVING project that I am embarking upon. Could it be you?!?
Slathered in sunscreen and highly toxic bug repellent. Leggings worn underneath a loose-fitting sundress on an oppressively hot day. Feet, swollen with an eery gelatin feeling on top, from two lengthy international flights. My thighs, clinging to my husband. My arms wrapped across his belly—-in sweaty and deep admiration, as he boldly navigated [traffic] obstacles with grace. Exhilaration, conquering my senses, while armed with prayers and intentions of LOVE and safe travel—-as we road-tripped it on a motorbike—-our kind of a pilgrimage—-to one of the most beautiful beaches in the world.
This is a snippet from our second day in Goa—-now one of the best days of my life—when my husband, Daniel rented a scooter and drove us all over. Did we know that we were going to do this before we arrived in India? Nope. Did we know that there would be cows, chickens, pigs, pedestrians, cyclists, auto rickshaws and tour busses on the road while we drove around? Not really.
Saying YES was a no-brainer choice for us, given our adventurous spirits and Daniel’s love of riding motorcycles.
Let’s jump ahead a few days later— where we are now entrenched in the serpentine nature of bazaars and the famous Spice Market in Old Delhi. In constant awe of the chaos with our first “Indian Helicopter,” apparently a manually navigated rickshaw, where we were led to air conditioned shop where we could safely test out magic carpets, admire crystals, and drink tea with Arabs. (I seriously felt like a character in “The Alchemist!”)
Two days before that, we experienced luxury and abundance in the form of mysticism, body-pampering, great food, and shopping for Indian fashions, with a dear friend of ours who resides in the greater New Delhi area.
NOT ONE OF THESE EVENTS WAS PLANNED and yet everything went “according to plan.”
What I found is that when I plan, nothing ever really turns out the way that my Junior, my word for ego, wants it to. Of course, this does NOT mean that I am unaccountable to appointments, that I go flaying (instead of flowing) with life, and that I just cross my fingers and hope for the best.
It does mean that I LET LOVE LEAD THE WAY!
Love is my intention for everything that I do. If I want to create love, I put LOVE into my entire process of creating it. And since I have free will and desire, I can choose a destination for LOVE to flow in my life. For instance, as long as I can remember, I wanted a partner who I could travel with, enjoy great food with, and change the world with. I ended up creating that with Daniel, my husband.
It has not always been easy. Our relationship has never lacked for love nor passion, but there have been times in which we have struggled together.
There were miscommunications, judgements, and hurt feelings—-and really, SO MANY clash of the Juniors between us!
In all of our time together, neither of us has once chosen to settle. In fact, six years ago, after attending some incredible transformational trainings called World Works in the Orange County area, I chose to no longer participate in the dynamic that Daniel and I had co-created in our relationship.
Just to be clear, I was NOT rejecting Daniel as a person. I simply knew that the way in which our relationship was currently going was no longer viable nor aligned with my soul’s path and my heart’s desire.
And that’s the thing.
When we can powerfully OWN what it is that we desire—-we may quickly find that some of our relationships no longer fit in with who we are committed to becoming. The choice to release a relationship or to remove yourself from a dynamic in a relationship is both extremely painful and incredibly liberating.
I did not like who I was being in our relationship. I did not like how much I held myself back. What I saw as Daniel’s rigidity was really just a mirror image showing me how much I had chosen the path of fear and insecurity.
I no longer wanted to feel this way. I was not satisfied with the results in my life. I no longer wanted to be status quo and wait to die. I wanted LOVE. I wanted to live free from the control of outside expectations and fear.
I chose to REVOLT FOR LOVE!
Six years ago, I told Daniel that what we had was DEAD. Now, we are traveling in India together where we BOTH spoke at the Women’s Economic Forum in New Delhi.
Daniel did not plan to speak, but he made a new choice. In the midst of being in such a loving, enlightening, and inspiring environment, Daniel chose to follow his heart by taking a huge new step toward a dream of his. By choosing to speak, network, and be the empowering person that he is, Daniel has effectively launched his SECOND business—-his coaching business!!!
I am SOOOOO thrilled for Daniel and I LOVE (x3) what LOVE has led us both to—-together!!!
If planning is not your thing either, do not worry. Just be honest with yourself…
…Are you not planning because you are afraid of not doing things the “right” way?
…Do you make yourself plan everything out because you think that is what you are supposed to do?
…Are you waiting for permission to stand in your truth and follow your dreams?
…Are can you let go of?
…What are you ready to say yes to?
…What new up level would you love to be a part of your relationships and experiences?
I would LOVE to hear your answers to at least one of these questions!!!
Share your heart with me by leaving a comment or emailing me at firstname.lastname@example.org
I LOVE YOU!