I know it has been a while since we have connected. Truthfully, I have been in deep reflection. Even though I love my contemplation, I genuinely missed connecting with you! I did not reach out because I did not really have anything to say, but now I have something to share with you…It’s about trust. More specifically, self-trust, that sometimes elusive treasure that some of us never find.
Before I go any further, I want to disclose something. Trust—-particularly self-trust—has notoriously been a big deal for me. I used to be someone who was petrified of making a mistake. I used to be someone who was reluctant to move forward without proof. I used to check in with other people about what decisions I “should” make. These choices went right along with who was “safe” to love and what I needed to do to keep myself from being hurt.
Why did I do this? Well, being a psychic little kid, I had a very *different* perception of what was going on. I would see things—-fairies, spirits, scary things, colors around people. I would know things—-things I was not supposed to know and did not know I was not supposed to know. I would feel people’s feelings in my body. I did not know what to make of my experiences, but one thing I knew for sure was that it was NOT what my family and friends were experiencing. I decided that I was wrong and I wanted to keep my perceptions a secret. I was successful at this for many, many years…Until I wasn’t.
I will get into all of that another time, but for now: doesn’t it make sense why I would not trust myself? After all, I had no external support or validation and I decided from a very young age that my experiences were wrong. This choice allowed me to constantly give my power away to other people—-my power away to my lovers, my friends, my family, and any authority figure. Looking back, it was what was normal, but now living in that reality would be a perfectly self-created hell.
Ever since I chose to trust myself, I began to listen to myself intently. I saw that much of what I perceived was not the norm. Instead of getting discouraged as I did as a small child and again as a person with low self-esteem, I now see that my unconventional way of seeing things—-not just seeing ghosts and auras—-is what really allows me to serve other people. Here is what I have found to be true about trust:
- Trust has nothing to do with guarantees and trust comes with a different type of certainty.
- Trust has nothing to do with whether or not things will go “according to plan.”
- Trust is complete liberation and ownership of my life, my intentions, and my manifestations.
For me, trust is about accepting my own inner wisdom, stating my intention, and moving forward with an open heart.
Have you ever wondered what your life and what your relationships would be like if you trusted yourself completely? What would you do more or less of?
“The person you hate is actually an aspect of yourself that you hate.”
I was with one of my spiritual mentors. The words that altered my entire world were spoken by her teacher.
At the time I was dealing with a lot of strong emotions. I felt that someone I loved was being treated horribly. I felt very angry. The situation seemed hopeless. I was very much consumed with a problem that did not directly affect me.
Those wise words got my attention. From that moment forth, I realized that if I did not start treating myself better—-how could I expect anyone to treat me or anyone I loved better?
All of us are connected.
The person you carry feelings of contempt or hatred toward represent a part of you in some form or another. And likewise, a person you love and admire represents traits that are either dormant or ignited within yourself.
Instead of judging your opinions or thoughts of another person, I invite you to love yourself and embrace the healing opportunity that this other person has brought forth for you.
The one-ness concept is a driving force in my newest project called “The Universal Love Story,” a video series that documents the lives of six people who courageously open their hearts to love and to the joyful creation of relationships and outcomes that reflect their heart’s desire.
If you are able to re-write your own personal love story and change the course of your life, then you play a role in the collective healing of “The Universal Love Story.”
That’s how powerful you are!
Take a moment to watch the teaser for “The Universal Love Story” and if you feel so moved, subscribe and share it with your friends!
See you soon!
Whether it happens within a friendship or an intimate relationship, breaking up is hard to do. The process of letting go of what once was can bring up a variety of emotions.
In the following video, I offer you the following:
– Loving insight to help you heal faster
– A perspective that can help you move forward with less anger and resentment
What the video below:
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Do you feel alone? Like no one understands the heartache you endure? Do you feel broken, stuck, and wonder what’s next for you?
When we have a broken heart, we can feel lost.
That’s very much how Lauren Wenzell first felt when she first reached out to me.
Lauren had no idea how she was going to break free of the betrayal she felt in her heart. She did not know how she would heal from her painful breakup with the man she felt was the love of her life.
And yet—-Lauren prevailed. She healed her heart, reclaimed her power, and created her best relationship.
Watch Lauren’s story of soul-level healing, self-love, and attracting her dream relationship here:
What does this video inspire in you? Do you see yourself in Lauren? Reach out and let me know. I would LOVE to connect with you
When was the last time you broke up with someone? What about the last time someone broke up with you?
Whether it’s divorce, an intimate partnership, or even a friendship—-I want you to know that it OK to be heartbroken. It is OK to move on too. And yes, it is definitely possible to do both at once at the same time too!
As a Love Psychic and Healer, I see people struggle with resentment, grudges, and even guilt.
The pain of a breakup and the desire for fairness and justice is completely understandable. It is healthy to acknowledge your heart’s pain and any emotions you are experiencing through your process.
It is freeing—-LIBERATING to release what separates you from love. Letting go is one of the most loving things that you can do for YOU.
During the Women’s Economic Forum in New Delhi, I had the honor of speaking with a panel of women on the topic of “Driving the Future with Love, Caring, andForgiveness.”
Please watch the video below for loving wisdom burst on this subject.
I will be in touch very soon with footage from my “Letting Love Lead the Way” mini workshop.
Have you ever been told that you “too much?”
Have you lost yourself in a romantic relationship?
Do you yearn to love yourself more and be seen?
Are you ready to break free of negative love life karma, heal your heart, and have your best relationship—-on your terms.
If you answered yes to any of the questions above, then I urge you to watch the video below. In the video, I pour my own heart into my own desire—-a vision that requires the loving contribution of other heart-centered exhibitionists in a fun, new, and LOVING project that I am embarking upon. Could it be you?!?