Do you remember the first time you experienced heartbreak? Were you angry? Sad? Deeply Frustrated?
Or did you feel numb? Disillusioned?
Heartbreak is both deeply personal and universal. It is not limited only to romantic relationships either.
Heartbreak spans across all of your relationships—including the one you have with yourself. It can make its way into your professional life and into your habits for rest and relaxation. It can highly impact your health, your finances, and your general wellness. It can certainly contribute to having less than satisfactory experiences in your intimate relationships too!
When feeling heartbroken, you might feel disconnected. You may wonder, “why is this happening to me?” “What did I do wrong?” You might think, “Oh no!! Not this again!”
Even in those moments of where you feel you’re most disconnected, you could not be more connected to truth. At this moment, there are so many people who can relate to feeling disconnected—-whether they are feeling that way right now or have felt that way before.
This is the archetype of heartbreak. All of us, at some time or another, connect with this archetype.
We all know what it is to experience heartbreak and yet…
…Only a select few of us understand what it is to truly heal this heartbreak.
(Just because you are currently in a “good” relationship does not mean that the heartbreak has gone away. In fact, it could be showing up in other aspects of your life.)
The archetype of heartbreak is what drives me each day. Assisting my clients in healing heartbreak (whether it is a from a recent heartbreak or a heartbreak that spans years or lifetimes) is one of my specialties. Helping people heal heartbreak by digging into past lives and healing at the soul-level is one of my most favorite things to do!
See, the heart is one of the most powerful and one of the most under-utilized tools that humanity has. When your heart is healed, it fuels your mind to be at full capacity and it can do wonderful things for your health, relationships, and finances too!
Your heart is truly your greatest asset and ally. It is the epicenter of your creativity.
If your heart is on board with whatever it is you want to do, you will have the strength and determination to move mountains!
With all of this, why do you think people choose to go on without fully healing their hearts?
Why do some of us sweep our pain under the rug, cross our fingers, and hope for the best? Why do some of us wallow in our pain using it as a shield against being hurt?
(These are the questions that ignite me!!)
What I have found is that heartbreak is alive and well due to a unconscious to follow what I call “The Laws of Love.”
The “Laws of Love” are illusions that separate you from love. “Laws of Love” are grounded in fear, separation from Truth, and are fueled by a lack of self-worth and feelings of uselessness. The “Laws of Love” are driven by conforming to circumstances and rules that you do not really like or agree with.
To shed light on the Laws of Love and to contribute to the healing of the archetype of heartbreak, I created a video series—-think reality show/documentary—called “The Universal Love Story.”
Watch the trailer for “The Universal Love Story” here: https://youtu.be/Qm_ouHEGEqQ
By watching “The Universal Love Story” you will be enlightened to exactly what “The Laws of Love” are! You will find out how you can break these “Laws of Love!” And in doing so, you will connect more powerfully with your heart and contribute to the healing of collective heartbreak!!!
If this inspires you, please leave a comment on the video and share it with your friends and network!!
Thank you so much for reading. I will be in touch very soon with my own personal story of heartbreak and what is on the other side of healing it.
The Universal Love Story is a Love Renegades original video series that documents the lives of six courageous people who chose to have their sessions filmed with me over the course of three months. Each storyline consists of each cast member’s healing process choices as they BREAK FREE OF ILLUSIONS that separate them from love.
I am extremely grateful to each of my cast members for their unique contribution to The Universal Love Story. I am appreciative of both my producer and my loving husband for their ongoing love, support, and commitment to this heart-opening and life-changing project.
Anthony – He’s charming, talented, and ready to follow his dreams and find love in the process. Watch what unfolds for Anthony as he follows his personal legend. Click here to watch Anthony’s intro video: https://youtu.be/Vpn3qpYXToc
Brit – She’s gorgeous and knows exactly what she wants. She is willing to do whatever it takes to experience LOVE — on her terms. Watch what unfolds for Brit as she goes outside her comfort zone. Click here to watch Brit’s intro video: https://youtu.be/70TvxC0410g
Kiki – She’s a loving leader who runs a social enterprise in Nairobi, Kenya. Watch what unfolds for Kiki as she chooses to love and value herself in the same way she loves and values others. Click here to watch Kiki’s intro video: https://youtu.be/fwzDvMaR3ns
Nicole – She’s a business owner, a single mom, and a non-conformist who chooses to break free of the constraints she’s experienced in her relationships. Watch what unfolds for Nicole as she stays true to herself and opens her heart to new insights on how she can access her Gifts. Click here to watch Nicole’s intro video: https://youtu.be/BMc9bfqhD-g
Stacy – She’s on an adventure in a new city and ready to go outside her comfort zone and transcend some negative patterns. Watch what unfolds for Stacy as she deals with change and confronts challenges. Click here to watch Stacy’s intro video: https://youtu.be/AXufbxmhvxE
Victoria – She’s a successful go-getter, single mom, and passionate activist who’s ready to say yes to having a partnership with a man who’s at her level. Watch Victoria’s journey unfold as she opens her heart and surrenders to the magic of love. Click here to watch Victoria’s intro video: https://youtu.be/AXufbxmhvxE
“The person you hate is actually an aspect of yourself that you hate.”
I was with one of my spiritual mentors. The words that altered my entire world were spoken by her teacher.
At the time I was dealing with a lot of strong emotions. I felt that someone I loved was being treated horribly. I felt very angry. The situation seemed hopeless. I was very much consumed with a problem that did not directly affect me.
Those wise words got my attention. From that moment forth, I realized that if I did not start treating myself better—-how could I expect anyone to treat me or anyone I loved better?
All of us are connected.
The person you carry feelings of contempt or hatred toward represent a part of you in some form or another. And likewise, a person you love and admire represents traits that are either dormant or ignited within yourself.
Instead of judging your opinions or thoughts of another person, I invite you to love yourself and embrace the healing opportunity that this other person has brought forth for you.
The one-ness concept is a driving force in my newest project called “The Universal Love Story,” a video series that documents the lives of six people who courageously open their hearts to love and to the joyful creation of relationships and outcomes that reflect their heart’s desire.
If you are able to re-write your own personal love story and change the course of your life, then you play a role in the collective healing of “The Universal Love Story.”
That’s how powerful you are!
Take a moment to watch the teaser for “The Universal Love Story” and if you feel so moved, subscribe and share it with your friends!
See you soon!
Whether it happens within a friendship or an intimate relationship, breaking up is hard to do. The process of letting go of what once was can bring up a variety of emotions.
In the following video, I offer you the following:
– Loving insight to help you heal faster
– A perspective that can help you move forward with less anger and resentment
What the video below:
If you would like to have a free Heart Connection Session, I would love to set up a time for us to connect. Please do so by filling out an application here:
http://loverenegades.com/apply-renegade-session . After I receive you application, I will be in touch via email to set up a time for us to connect.
Do you feel alone? Like no one understands the heartache you endure? Do you feel broken, stuck, and wonder what’s next for you?
When we have a broken heart, we can feel lost.
That’s very much how Lauren Wenzell first felt when she first reached out to me.
Lauren had no idea how she was going to break free of the betrayal she felt in her heart. She did not know how she would heal from her painful breakup with the man she felt was the love of her life.
And yet—-Lauren prevailed. She healed her heart, reclaimed her power, and created her best relationship.
Watch Lauren’s story of soul-level healing, self-love, and attracting her dream relationship here:
What does this video inspire in you? Do you see yourself in Lauren? Reach out and let me know. I would LOVE to connect with you
Hi Beautiful Soul!
Want to know the main problem that my clients initially talk to me about? We talk openly about their experiences with relationship pain, heartbreak, and betrayal.
We shed light on the agitating—yet relatable—- ins and outs of the unpleasant emotions that are often in the forefront of intimate relationships and having your best love life.
These matters-of-the-heart are highly frustrating. It sucks to endure the same situation over and over again and wonder, “How much more of this can I take?”
(Watch a video I created for you by clicking here.) https://youtu.be/BEYlmhpr7Lo
If you can relate, then…
- …Are you ready to reconnect, discover, and shed light on your own personal love story—-your own unique way of experiencing a love life and a relationship that brings you joy and allows you to feel good about yourself?
- …Are you ready to release all of the blocks—-the illusions—-that separate you from love?
- …Are you ready to break free from your inner critic and have your best relationship?
If you answered yes, then it’s time for you to reclaim and re-invent your soul’s personal love story/your key to love and freedom in your intimate relationships!
As Love Psychic and founder of Love Renegades, I facilitate practical soul-level healing for heart-centered people who want the very best in their relationships and love lives. Through each client, I have found that plenty goes into having your best relationship and that what works for one person may not work for you.
Each personal love story contributes to the bigger picture, or the Universal Love Story.
Do you want to reclaim your personal love story and have your best relationship while making a positive impact on other peoples’ lives?
If your answer is yes, then join me as a lead cast member of my new project, a Love Renegades Video Series called the Universal Love Story where you will receive:
- Aligned insight into your highest potential, inner magic, and soul gifts
- Soul-level healing and ongoing energy clearing work to assist you in transforming negative relationship karma and attracting your desires
- New levels of self-trust, self-confidence, and self-love
- Freedom of illusions that separate you from love
- Exclusive special investment pricing that is only available to cast members
If this resonates with you and if you want to learn more, then please fill out an application for a Heart Connection Session.
During our time together, we will connect about you, your heart, and your relationships and love life. I will shed light on what I feel is separating your from love. If I feel we are a good fit to work together, I will let you know how the Universal Love Story can help you. Apply here: http://loverenegades.com/apply-renegade-session/
After I receive your application, I will be in touch via email to coordinate a video call or an in-person meeting for us.
I am so excited to connect with you about your personal love story and to assist you in having your best relationship and results that you love!
When was the last time you broke up with someone? What about the last time someone broke up with you?
Whether it’s divorce, an intimate partnership, or even a friendship—-I want you to know that it OK to be heartbroken. It is OK to move on too. And yes, it is definitely possible to do both at once at the same time too!
As a Love Psychic and Healer, I see people struggle with resentment, grudges, and even guilt.
The pain of a breakup and the desire for fairness and justice is completely understandable. It is healthy to acknowledge your heart’s pain and any emotions you are experiencing through your process.
It is freeing—-LIBERATING to release what separates you from love. Letting go is one of the most loving things that you can do for YOU.
During the Women’s Economic Forum in New Delhi, I had the honor of speaking with a panel of women on the topic of “Driving the Future with Love, Caring, andForgiveness.”
Please watch the video below for loving wisdom burst on this subject.
I will be in touch very soon with footage from my “Letting Love Lead the Way” mini workshop.
Have you ever been told that you “too much?”
Have you lost yourself in a romantic relationship?
Do you yearn to love yourself more and be seen?
Are you ready to break free of negative love life karma, heal your heart, and have your best relationship—-on your terms.
If you answered yes to any of the questions above, then I urge you to watch the video below. In the video, I pour my own heart into my own desire—-a vision that requires the loving contribution of other heart-centered exhibitionists in a fun, new, and LOVING project that I am embarking upon. Could it be you?!?
Slathered in sunscreen and highly toxic bug repellent. Leggings worn underneath a loose-fitting sundress on an oppressively hot day. Feet, swollen with an eery gelatin feeling on top, from two lengthy international flights. My thighs, clinging to my husband. My arms wrapped across his belly—-in sweaty and deep admiration, as he boldly navigated [traffic] obstacles with grace. Exhilaration, conquering my senses, while armed with prayers and intentions of LOVE and safe travel—-as we road-tripped it on a motorbike—-our kind of a pilgrimage—-to one of the most beautiful beaches in the world.
This is a snippet from our second day in Goa—-now one of the best days of my life—when my husband, Daniel rented a scooter and drove us all over. Did we know that we were going to do this before we arrived in India? Nope. Did we know that there would be cows, chickens, pigs, pedestrians, cyclists, auto rickshaws and tour busses on the road while we drove around? Not really.
Saying YES was a no-brainer choice for us, given our adventurous spirits and Daniel’s love of riding motorcycles.
Let’s jump ahead a few days later— where we are now entrenched in the serpentine nature of bazaars and the famous Spice Market in Old Delhi. In constant awe of the chaos with our first “Indian Helicopter,” apparently a manually navigated rickshaw, where we were led to air conditioned shop where we could safely test out magic carpets, admire crystals, and drink tea with Arabs. (I seriously felt like a character in “The Alchemist!”)
Two days before that, we experienced luxury and abundance in the form of mysticism, body-pampering, great food, and shopping for Indian fashions, with a dear friend of ours who resides in the greater New Delhi area.
NOT ONE OF THESE EVENTS WAS PLANNED and yet everything went “according to plan.”
What I found is that when I plan, nothing ever really turns out the way that my Junior, my word for ego, wants it to. Of course, this does NOT mean that I am unaccountable to appointments, that I go flaying (instead of flowing) with life, and that I just cross my fingers and hope for the best.
It does mean that I LET LOVE LEAD THE WAY!
Love is my intention for everything that I do. If I want to create love, I put LOVE into my entire process of creating it. And since I have free will and desire, I can choose a destination for LOVE to flow in my life. For instance, as long as I can remember, I wanted a partner who I could travel with, enjoy great food with, and change the world with. I ended up creating that with Daniel, my husband.
It has not always been easy. Our relationship has never lacked for love nor passion, but there have been times in which we have struggled together.
There were miscommunications, judgements, and hurt feelings—-and really, SO MANY clash of the Juniors between us!
In all of our time together, neither of us has once chosen to settle. In fact, six years ago, after attending some incredible transformational trainings called World Works in the Orange County area, I chose to no longer participate in the dynamic that Daniel and I had co-created in our relationship.
Just to be clear, I was NOT rejecting Daniel as a person. I simply knew that the way in which our relationship was currently going was no longer viable nor aligned with my soul’s path and my heart’s desire.
And that’s the thing.
When we can powerfully OWN what it is that we desire—-we may quickly find that some of our relationships no longer fit in with who we are committed to becoming. The choice to release a relationship or to remove yourself from a dynamic in a relationship is both extremely painful and incredibly liberating.
I did not like who I was being in our relationship. I did not like how much I held myself back. What I saw as Daniel’s rigidity was really just a mirror image showing me how much I had chosen the path of fear and insecurity.
I no longer wanted to feel this way. I was not satisfied with the results in my life. I no longer wanted to be status quo and wait to die. I wanted LOVE. I wanted to live free from the control of outside expectations and fear.
I chose to REVOLT FOR LOVE!
Six years ago, I told Daniel that what we had was DEAD. Now, we are traveling in India together where we BOTH spoke at the Women’s Economic Forum in New Delhi.
Daniel did not plan to speak, but he made a new choice. In the midst of being in such a loving, enlightening, and inspiring environment, Daniel chose to follow his heart by taking a huge new step toward a dream of his. By choosing to speak, network, and be the empowering person that he is, Daniel has effectively launched his SECOND business—-his coaching business!!!
I am SOOOOO thrilled for Daniel and I LOVE (x3) what LOVE has led us both to—-together!!!
If planning is not your thing either, do not worry. Just be honest with yourself…
…Are you not planning because you are afraid of not doing things the “right” way?
…Do you make yourself plan everything out because you think that is what you are supposed to do?
…Are you waiting for permission to stand in your truth and follow your dreams?
…Are can you let go of?
…What are you ready to say yes to?
…What new up level would you love to be a part of your relationships and experiences?
I would LOVE to hear your answers to at least one of these questions!!!
Share your heart with me by leaving a comment or emailing me at email@example.com
I LOVE YOU!
This week I will be traveling to India to speak at the Women’s Economic and Empowerment Forum. My husband, Daniel, my sexiest best friend in the whole world, is coming with me. We are going to mix business with romance. After drinking in insanely beautiful beach sunsets in Goa, we will catch a flight to New Delhi, the city where the conference is being held, where I will speak about “Letting Love Lead the Way” and “Opening the Gates of Love.”
This is a dream that I have held in my heart for years!! If you read “My Rock Bottom”, my blog from last week, you will know that getting to this point used to be really, really far away. I was so separated from Love that the closest I could have gotten to this moment was either in sleep-inspired dream-land or through my imagination. A series of choices were made over the years to bring me to this current point.
Another dream of mine is everyone to have their own version of this. For this reason, I wanted to share a bit about my process with you without giving you an “easy seven step formula to follow” or anything like that. These how-to “cooke-cutter” style formulas do not work anyway. They do not work because they lack YOUR energetic contribution and participation.
Let me elaborate…
If you are reading this, you are unique and have your own way of doing things. We might be similar, but we are both different people with different souls and different preferences. What works for me may not work for you and vice versa.
What I will do is shed light on universal truths that can enlighten you to things that you can STOP DOING as soon as possible. The choices I am referring to are the ones that are separating you from Love. When you stop doing these things, you will attract more opportunities to experience LOVE—-on your terms!!
If you are open and accepting of what I share, you stand the chance of forging a connection that paves the way for you to:
Reclaim your personal power
Make waves in your relationships, your LOVE LIFE, and other parts of your life too!!
This is a complete healing and lifestyle choice. When you heal, you release blocks to Love. You reconnect with your heart—-your greatest ally—-and your soul, your personal source of power! This powerful reconnection allows you to REGULATE! When you regulate, you #revoltforlove. You approach “problems” in a conscious and enlightened way that creates CHANGE THAT YOU LOVE!
To assist you in this process, I have include snippets of a talk that I recently did at the Women’s Chamber of Commerce of Texas called “Choosing Truth Over Illusion.” As you watch, I invite you to:
Check in with your own heart
Observe your feelings, thoughts, and insights.
Pay attention to what the content ignites in you (and write that shit out!!! )
Some of what I share may seem “obvious.” You may also feel angry, frustrated, and uncomfortable. All of this is totally OK. It’s really important information!!! Your reaction is a gateway to your own healing and to dismantling illusions that separate you from love.
Watch the videos by clicking on the descriptions for each video segment below.
In this first video, I introduce what an illusion is in the context of Truth.
In this next segment, I talk about a Category 1 Illusion. These are illusions that may have been based in wisdom or truth at one point, but have since deviated.
The next type of illusion, a Category 2 Illusion, is what others told you was true. These illusions are running your life. Conscious awareness of these illusions can set you free.
This highlight your heart’s connection to you and all of the healing opportunities that your present circumstances are offering you.
That’s all for now!
I will be in touch with updates from India. If you have questions or feedback about the content, let me know by leaving a comment!
Sending you so much LOVE!